Reclaim Shalom through Telling Your Story

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You were made for Shalom.

What is Shalom and if you were made for it, why don’t you feel peace? How do you get it (or Reclaim it)?
What does your story have to do with shalom? Is it really possible to find it?

What is Shalom?

It is not merely the absence of conflict — it’s the presence of active peace.

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What happened to Shalom?

Simply put, Shalom was shattered by sin. It was broken. It was lost.

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Recent Articles

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    The Difference Between Hope and Hurrying
    By Chris Malone • June 1, 2026
    There is a version of hope that heals and a version that hurries. They sound identical, but they produce…
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  • When Every Place Reminds You of What Happened
    By Chris Malone • May 29, 2026
    For men who carry trauma, places are not just coordinates. They are containers for memory that your body never…
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  • Why Money Feels Like a Threat
    By Chris Malone • May 27, 2026
    For men who carry trauma, money is rarely just money. It is safety, control, and the distance between you…
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  • Why You Cannot Plan Tomorrow When Yesterday Still Controls You
    By Chris Malone • May 25, 2026
    For men whose childhood was defined by unpredictability, planning ahead can feel threatening. Your body learned that plans get…
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  • Why Your Friendships Feel So Complicated
    By Chris Malone • May 22, 2026
    You want close friends, and you cannot stand the thought of someone getting that close. That tension is not…
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  • Small green seedling gently cradled in protective hands symbolizing tender growth

    Scripture That Meets You in the Wreckage
    By Chris Malone • May 20, 2026
    What if Scripture is not the problem? What if the problem is how it has been used on you…
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  • What Trauma Touched But Could Not Take
    By Chris Malone • May 18, 2026
    Trauma is a thief that convinces you it stole more than it actually did. But look at what survived….
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  • When Healing Takes Longer Than You Expected
    By Chris Malone • May 13, 2026
    If healing is taking longer than you expected, you are not doing it wrong. Real healing does not follow…
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  • When His Past Enters Your Marriage
    By Chris Malone • May 11, 2026
    When a man’s trauma enters his marriage, the distance it creates can feel like rejection. It does not have…
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  • When Sex Becomes a Way to Manage Pain
    By Chris Malone • May 8, 2026
    When sexual behavior is compulsive, it is rarely just about desire. For men with trauma, it is pain finding…
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Recent Videos

April 15, I published part 1 of an 8-part series — full of excitement and vision for what I hoped to create. But one comment (a small critique about my lighting) hit something deep. It wasn’t the words themselves… it was what they triggered: an old, familiar voice. The bully in my head. In this video, I talk honestly about how childhood bullying shaped that inner critic, how perfectionism kept me stuck, and why I’m finally choosing to show up anyway — imperfect, vulnerable, and still healing. If you’ve ever felt paralyzed by self-doubt, fear of judgment, or the belief that you’re not “good enough” to try — this video is for you. ⸻ 🔑 What I cover: • How one comment triggered childhood wounds • The lie of perfectionism and how it keeps us stuck • Why the inner critic isn’t really your voice • 3 action steps I’m using to show up anyway ⸻ 🛠️ Want to push back against your own inner bully? Leave a comment and tell me how the voice shows up in your life — and what helps you move forward. 🧡 If this resonates, subscribe. I’m building a space for people who want to heal, create, and grow — even while the bully in their head is still talking. Website: 🔗 https://reclaimingshalom.com 10:34
The Bully In My Head Won't Shut Up | Why I’m Showing Up Anyway
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The Bully In My Head Won't Shut Up | Why I’m Showing Up Anyway

156 views July 11, 2025 4:46 pm

Have you ever wondered how something broken can become more beautiful than it was before? In this introductory video, we explore the ancient art of Kintsugi where broken pottery is repaired with gold, making the fractures part of its unique beauty-and discover how this concept parallels our own journey from brokenness to restoration. In this series, I share personal experiences of pain and healing, exploring how the Hebrew word shalom-symbolizing wholeness, peace, and harmony-is not just a distant memory of Eden's perfection, but a blueprint for restoring every aspect of our lives. Whether you're facing the aftermath of a relationship, the loss of a dream, or deep personal trauma, this series is for you. Together, over the next six weeks, we will: • Dive deep into understanding God's original design for flourishing beyond mere peace. • Reflect on the realities of how trust and wholeness can shatter in our lives. • Discover practical, faith-driven, and psychologically grounded pathways to mend our broken pieces. I invite you to join me on this transformative journey. Subscribe now so you never miss an episode, and visit reclaimingshalom.com/halom-series for additional resources, reflection questions, and community discussion. Remember, your breaks don't define you-they are the starting points for creating something even more beautiful. Be kind to yourself and let's move from brokenness to restoration together. Also visit https://reclaimingshalom.com/shalom-series for additional resources, reflection questions, and community discussion. 7:00
From Brokenness to Restoration: The Shalom Journey — PART ONE
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From Brokenness to Restoration: The Shalom Journey — PART ONE

145 views April 14, 2025 9:09 am

Want to learn about self-kindness? We become like the people we surround ourselves with. If your inner critic is loud, it’s time to find a community that models self-compassion. Seek out friends, mentors, and faith-based groups that encourage grace and growth. You don’t have to walk this journey alone—in fact, you can’t do it alone. Let’s build a circle of support and self-kindness together. #SelfCompassion #GrowthMindset #FaithCommunity @ReclaimingShalom #HealingJourney #ReclaimingShalom 🔔 Subscribe to join our community of healing: https://www.youtube.com/@ReclaimingShalom 💡 Want to dive deeper? Visit https://reclaimingshalom.com 1:01
Stop Self Sabotage With This Proven Method
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Stop Self Sabotage With This Proven Method

86 views March 11, 2025 12:47 pm

Welcome to Reclaiming Shalom! 💜 In this video, we explore how mindfulness can help us manage our inner critic and transform our self talk. Through understanding mental wellness and practicing self criticism awareness, we'll learn practical tools for personal growth that create lasting change. Let's walk this healing path together! ✨ @ReclaimingShalom #HealingJourney #ReclaimingShalom 🔔 Subscribe to join our community of healing: https://www.youtube.com/@ReclaimingShalom 💡 Want to dive deeper? Visit https://reclaimingshalom.com 0:30
How This Simple Pause Technique Will Change Your Life!
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How This Simple Pause Technique Will Change Your Life!

299 views February 20, 2025 11:00 am

Welcome to Reclaiming Shalom! 💜 In this video, I explore how our self criticism impacts our mental wellness and share practical strategies for cultivating self kindness. Through mindfulness and personal growth, we'll discover how to quiet that harsh inner voice and embrace a more compassionate way of being. Let's walk this healing path together! ✨ @ReclaimingShalom #HealingJourney #ReclaimingShalom 🔔 Subscribe to join our community of healing: https://www.youtube.com/@ReclaimingShalom 💡 Want to dive deeper? Visit https://reclaimingshalom.com 16:13
Your Inner Critic Doesn't Control You | 5 Ways to Reclaim Power
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Your Inner Critic Doesn't Control You | 5 Ways to Reclaim Power

125 views February 15, 2025 2:30 pm

Welcome to Reclaiming Shalom! Healing from trauma is messy, but it’s possible. In this short, I’ll share how your journey to peace and wholeness starts today. Let’s walk this road together! 💜 @ReclaimingShalom #HealingFromTrauma #ReclaimingShalom" 0:12
STOP Letting Trauma Control Your Life
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STOP Letting Trauma Control Your Life

143 views February 4, 2025 12:34 pm

Learn how to heal from trauma and find freedom and peace in your life. Discover techniques for trauma recovery and overcoming childhood trauma in this empowering video. #healingtrauma #ReclaimingShalom #traumahealingjourney Welcome to Reclaiming Shalom! In this first video, we explore how trauma affects our lives and begin the journey toward authentic healing and peace. Whether you're carrying the weight of past experiences or supporting someone who is, this channel offers a space where faith meets healing. Join me as we discover practical tools, biblical wisdom, and honest conversations about trauma, healing, and finding true shalom - the deep peace and wholeness we were meant to experience. ✨ In this video: • What Reclaiming Shalom is all about • How trauma shapes our stories • Why healing is possible • The journey ahead 🔔 Subscribe to join our community of healing: https://www.youtube.com/@ReclaimingShalom 💡 Want to dive deeper? Visit https://reclaimingshalom.com 10:09
Healing from Trauma: Finding Freedom & Peace
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Healing from Trauma: Finding Freedom & Peace

78 views February 3, 2025 6:12 pm

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